A simple, 20-minute meditation will make you refreshed and relaxed. It's a quick, easy way to separate yourself mentally from the situation. In it's simplest form, if your partner is crawling the wall is to associate sex with the state of relaxation. He will be extremely grateful if you can keep calm and not distracted, stressed or busy. Simple things, like a warm bath with herbs and epsom salts, scented oils and candles is one of the best romantic for him to help relax him and show him you care.